When your out there struggling. And things aren't going your way. And you don't know if the suffering will ever end. That's when you have to take the pain you're experiencing, look it square in the eyes, and embrace it. Make it your friend. Give it a big ol' hug. Because pain is growth. Pain is change. Pain is what makes you stronger. Anybody that wants to better themselves but doesn't want to get to know pain is a fool. Embrace the pain. Better yourself. It's that simple.